Easter 2011

WOW...where has the 5 day Easter 2011 long weekend gone!?!?! I cant believe its already Wednesday which means that Chris is back to work and Lucas and I are back in our 'normal' routine. But, on the flip side, its only 3 days til the weekend again :)

On Good Friday, I headed off to church in the morning, while Chris stayed home with Lucas. My mum also travelled up to spend the weekend and following week with us. After returning home, we all packed into the car with our supplies and headed down to Mandurah. We decided to park the car and walk down the foreshore to the visitors centre. However, we didn't count on it being closed!! So we had to make our own way and find things to do. We ended up walking around the small marks at Dolphin Quay, going for a coffee and ending off with play time on the grass and Cicerella's dinner. It was a beautiful day weather wise and we had a great time relaxing, taking photos, talking and laughing.

We also had a lovely, older lady stop to talk with us and let Lucas play and pet her dog. Lucas loved it and was full of giggles!

Easter Saturday - after Lucas's morning sleep we headed off to the Swan Valley. Here we visited Yahava Koffeeworks, the Chocolate Factory, a few wineries, Oggies Ice Creamery and Whiteman Park. Unfortunately we didn't get to stop at Whiteman Park as Lucas had just fallen sleep, and we didn't want to wake up and have a grumpy boy to deal with!!

At the Chocolate factory Lucas got to have his first taste of chocolate!! It was probably more exciting for us then it was for him...you may remember that Lucas has an allergy to cows milk. But the dark chocolate at the factory contains no milk so he could eat it!!

And he also got to try another "first", this time at the ice creamery. He had a who bowl (scoop) of melon sorbet which he absolutely loved :) He even tried feeding himself.

Easter Sunday we spent the day in Church and at home, before ending the evening off with a games night at my in-laws house. Easter Monday was also ANZAC Day, where we could remember the past wars and efforts of the men (and boys) sent to fight in them. Chris woke up early and headed to the dawn service. We then pottered around at home, fixing and cleaning things and watching the ANZAC Day football match.

The final public holiday, Tuesday, we headed off to breakfast at the Dome and then to look at some shops. Disappointingly, most we wanted to go into were closed. So we ended up at our local S/C where Lucas was treated to some clothes, bought by Grandma and us, and we treated ourselves to coffee and chocolate.

And that was our weekend!! All over much too quickly, but still enjoyed by all :) and to think there is less than 6 weeks til the next public holiday...but there is much to get through first!!

We hope all our readers had a lovely Easter weekend too :)

Wobbe Wobble

Last week Lucas began to walk properly on his own...he is now walking EVERYWHERE and I finally remembered to charge up the video camera and take a video of him.

Our Story in a Song

Sometime back in January, when we uncertain if the pregnancy was viable (we found out too early to see a heartbeat and had to wait a few weeks), I heard a song while driving that really touched me. Then today, I was looking through my favourites when I found the song again. Listening to it, all I can say is that this describes our story so well, and we are praying for a similar ending.

p.s We elected not to find out the sex of our baby

Three little letters

Dear blogger friends,


In the last blog post I explained about the new blog title, but I also left you hanging, saying that I would later explain how our lives were taking a hilly turn... Firstly, i would like to begin this post with the ending of a new favourite author of mine...she ends a letter to her readers in much the same way in every book, and it seems appropriate for the highway/rollercoaster journey we are taking. So “…strap yourself in tight, and don’t forget to b r e a t h e…”


Well, to accurately describe our journey it all began just over two weeks ago...Monday the 28th of March, 2011... At 830am we were in the waiting room of our local SKG Radiology office, excited about our 18 week pregnancy scan and getting to see our second child.


The scan began much the same as the scan we had when pregnant with Lucas, with the exception that the sonographer wasn't as chatty as our previous one. Anyway, she took the usual measurements and we got to see the heartbeat, its two little feet and two little hands, a profile shot and many screens of the internal organs.


We first suspected that something wasn't quite right was when the sonographer kept returning to look at the same area, the upper chest cavity and heart. Our second clue was that the sonographer became very quiet!! And our third clue was that we were there for nearly 2 hours, for an appointment that usually takes no longer than an hour...


So after waiting all that time, the sonographer finally said we could go and handed us the CD of photos to take home. It was a few hours later that we had our fourth and final clue...Chris missed phone call from our doctor. The doctor left a message explaining that we needed to come in and see him at the end of the day. He also explained the reason why.


Our baby has been diagnosed with a birth defect called congenital diaphragmatic hernia, commonly referred to as CDH...(three little letters).

Now, unless you have been personally affected by CDH you have probably never heard of it. Although it is classified as a rare condition, it actually occurs in 1 in every 2500-5000 births (depending which website you take your stats from).

CDH affects the internal organs in the stomach cavity and the chest cavity. The diaphragm is a muscle that separates the chest cavity (heart & lungs) from the stomach cavity (stomach, liver, intestines etc). It also helps us breath. A hernia is a protrusion of  tissue or organ in a weak muscle. Therefore, CDH is when the diaphragm has a hernia (in our case its on the left hand side) that allows the stomach organs to move up into the chest cavity, thus restricting the growth of the lung, pushing the heart across, and can affect the other lung also.

In our case, we have been referred to a specialist at King Edward Memorial Hospital (KEMH) which provides the best antenatal, specialist care in Western Australia. We have met a few members of our "team" that consists of doctors, midwives, residents, surgeon, paediatrician etc. It is also at KEMH that we will continue to receive on-going antenatal care and where we will deliver our baby.

So, we have shared the negative news that we received, however, there are some positives as well. We have been told that at this stage (20 weeks) our baby is looking healthy, other than the presence of CDH. We are also one of 8 or 9 families who are expecting a child with CDH in WA, thus meaning we are on the same rollercoaster road, and will hopefully be able to meet with them at some stage. Also, our team of specialists is encouraging me to have a natural birth (yay), no c-section unless medically necessary (just like any other birth).

Our specialist was also very excited to learn that Lucas was a big baby (9pd 3oz) as a bigger baby generally has a better chance of survival and there is a fair chance this baby will be big also.

We have also found two website, one from the US and one from Aust that offer support for families who experience CDH. The Cherubs websites are fantastic sources of information and inspiration.

Now, our journey will take us down a difficult stretch of road, with new experiences and more times of uncertainty. I (Tamala) have decided to blog about those experiences as it will help us process and absorb the information and help us adjust to our "new" lives. You are welcome to come along this journey with us, and feel free to leave comments here, via email, via facebook, in person, or any other way possible. Also, please do not be offended if we were unable to tell you in person - there are many people to tell and only so many times that you repeat the diagnosis. Therefore, we thought our blog was the best modern method of informing all of you at the same time.

We will leave you with encouraging words from Psalm 139, that remind us that no child is an accident, that all children are a miracle made by God, and although they may not be perfect here on earth, they will become perfect on the new earth.

Psalm 139: 13-16 (NKJV) 

¹³ For You formed my inward parts;
         You covered me in my mother’s womb.
 ¹⁴ I will praise You, for I am fearfully and wonderfully made;^[b]
         Marvelous are Your works,
         And that my soul knows very well.
 ¹⁵ My frame was not hidden from You,
         When I was made in secret,
         And skillfully wrought in the lowest parts of the earth.
 ¹⁶ Your eyes saw my substance, being yet unformed.
         And in Your book they all were written,
         The days fashioned for me,
         When as yet there were none of them.

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New Title

So...you may have notice that I changed the blog title ... "Life's Highways" ... I was going to change it so that it had something to do with roller coasters, but since I've never been on one, I thought a highway was something I am MUCH more familiar with.

The new name came to me when I reflected on the fact that we are travelling a lot this year, down the main highways of the South West and Great Southern and that life is a lot like those highways. Sometimes you get a great run, not much traffic and the trip goes quickly. Other times, there is a lot of traffic, and everyone has to slow down and take their time. Also, the highways have many corners, turns, hills and valleys. Therefore it seemed fitting that I change our blog name to something that is very relevant to our lives :)

Also, our lives are about to take one of those hilly turns...an unexpected one...but more details to follow in the next few days when I get time to type it all up...

And just so you have something to look at other than text...here's a recent photo of me with Lucas